Richard Villegas – IllinoisAugust 18, 2020
I dated Richard Villegas from 2003 to December 23, 2017. He is a DJ that goes by the name DJ Rich or DJ Ruthless; he’s at the bar almost every night. If you dated him in this time frame, he had a girlfriend.
The first decade went well. Then I caught him cheating. Prior to catching him, I did notice he was texting less and was “working” more; but I thought he was just going thru something. I caught him months after it happened. When I confronted him, he lied til he was blue in the face. Then I showed him the proof and asked why he lied. He said “what do you expect; I’m a dude.” I took him back like an idiot. But as a condition of taking him back, I demanded he change his Facebook status to “in a relationship” and change his profile picture to one of us together. I figured this would chase off any respectable women.
Two years later, the symptoms returned. This time I recognized what was going on while it was going on. When I confronted him about it, he lied again. When I told him I had proof this time again, he cut off communication, changed his profile picture and relationship status. Ladies, this is what kind of man he is. This is what he did to a good looking loyal woman of 13 years.
Its hard to believe this is what kind of guy he is because he is quite the pretender. He holds himself out to be this standup conservative guy. He points out other gigolos and calls them degenerates. He speaks matter of factly and doesn’t act shady. When your out together, he leaves his phone alone, opens your door, pays the check, and even puts your coat on. He’ll send little presents to keep you content while he’s out on the prowl.
But mostly, you believe him because he’s a 3 and your an 8 or a 9. You think he’s treating you well because he appreciates having someone out of his league. And because you think he treats you so well, you look past the fact that he’s fat, that he has black plaque in his gumline from never brushing his teeth, that his face is covered in moles, that he’s not circumcised, that he gave you a lifelong STD, and that he cant blow his load and has to yank on himself after you dried up, only for nothing to come out.